Words out of ebony ladies and gents feel free to comment on...
what drives him wild...
"An ego boost and assurances he's No. 1: If a woman wants to turn on a Black man, compliment him, especially during times when thing aren't going too well. Kicking him when he's down helps no one.
A woman comfortable with her own sexuality: In public, she's the perfect woman--graceful, confident, reserved at times, naughty at others. And privately, she knows how to please herself and her man.
Good Grooming: Men, like women, place a high value on their companion looking good. From well-manicured fingers and toes to neat and stylish hair and fresh breath, an overall well-groomed appearance is a definite turn on for men.
A nice body: As shallow as it may sound, and as much as men will lie about it, most continue to be turned on by women with shapely bodies. While some men say big is in, all men have their preferences when it comes to a woman's physical attributes."
Here are what the experts say are definite turnoffs:
"Attending to his every need: Although Black men won't admit it, they are many times turned off by women who cater to their every need.
A long "track record": Another turnoff is a woman who doesn't value intimacy as something special. Experts say men are turned off by an "experienced" woman.
Words that get in the way: As harsh as it may sound, during times leading up to intimacy, most men want women to stop all the talk and tend to the matter at hand.
Comparisons to some" one else: definite turnoff for a man is a woman who constantly compares him to an ex-boyfriend, ex-husband, her girlfriend's man or anybody else.
A Show-me-the-money woman: A definite turnoff is the woman who determines whether she will be intimate with a man based on how much money he has and how much of it he spends on her. Relationship experts say many en are only interested in being intimate with a man who has money."
words straight out of ebony ladies... cuz this pinup gurl knows how to treat her man but has fallen victim to the dont likes!!
